What to do with your lips other than kissing

I was reading at Macdonald this afternoon and get inspired with the book by Joshua Harris.

So i decided to write down and share it here.

Recently i come across with the question: Why are we having so much trouble in life? Everyone seems to be unhappy? Love problem, family problem, financial, workplace, study....

I mean almost everyday, we flip on the papers and there will be teenagers suicide case.

What happen to humanity?

Human life seems to be so vulnarable and fragile.

Yes, human are fragile, just because their heart are fragile.

I always believe human heart is made by glass, because we are all emotional based animals.

Dun tell me that guys are not emotional, if they were, then you better watch out.

Everyone has emotion in order to have the ability to feel.

And when you have the ability to feel, you can get HURT.

When it comes to communication, men especially have a lot to learn in this area. no offence

So let's not dismiss this weakness as a "guy" thing. It doesn't give you license to say something hurtful or discourage words just because you think you are telling the truth. Instead, push yourself to improve it in order to cherish others life. If a simple praise or compliment can put a smile on someone's face, why not? *of course say it when you mean it*

Let me bring out the scenario:

Girl: I think i talk too much.

Guy:You know i'm not good in words.

Girl:At least you try?

Guy:But i never fail in action.(you mean kissing or cruddling?)

Girl:hmm...

If Love merely based on affection but not understanding, that's simply pathetic.

Not to mention communication is an art. Word itself means nothing when the intention is not there. Saying the right word, at the right time, with the right person, at a right place is even challenging. Lips is the meseenger of thoughts. Use it wisely. Good words can be an energizer that pushes you form miles to miles but bad words can drain you.

How Jesus spread the gospel?-Words

How politician convince the nation for votes?-Words

How the teacher instill knowledge to the students?-Words

How couples confess their commitment to each other? Vow of life-Words

Words are powerful. Speak to bless=)

Spread love.

Cheers...

有人说如果你用一年去爱一个人，就得用两年来忘记他，如果是两年，就要用四年，以此类推。。。忘记一个人真的那么难？

爱是？

兜兜转转到这一刻，我在想爱情到底是怎样的一回事？

让人欢喜，让人悲

如果不曾幸福快乐，又怎么会伤心难过?

不爱过，又怎么会恨？

如果曾经快乐，为什么还要走到这一步？

原来，爱不简单。

要在

对得时间，对的环境，用对的方式去爱对的人。

Knowing Who you are.

It has been some time i didn't blog.

I probably too busy with hectic schedule and having fun with conversation rather than typing it out word by word. I abandoned the beauty of documenting my life and i'm so sorry to myself.

The world is full of temptation. Opportunities are everywhere, just the moment you think you got something, actually you lost yourself.

Upon chasing opportunities and desired goal, I have no time to sit down and read or write about anything. If i refer my life pattern as an account, it would be all debit and no credit.

I have been working, studying, socializing. I am having so much fun.

However, when the fun stays longer, you forgot why you are doing it. (Hope you understand what i mean)Living in the city full of entertainments, interesting people and being in the broadcast world is easy to lost yourself. In my case YES. i almost lost the passion in hosting.

Sometimes, we just have to pace down and nurtured ourselves with some peaceful moments. Do something beneficial to yourself. Reduce Clubbing, yam chaing, and non stop dating could give you more time to develop yourself. No doubts, it will be difficult in the beginning, but as time goes you will realize that you gained more than what you lose.

All of the sudden, an unpleasant incident came into my life and it messes the busy daily routine i used to have. It is like a strong collision and it breaks everything apart. Of course it was a painful experience. But it makes me think ALOT.

I appreciate every bitterness in life because it makes me grow.

This is my favorite quote:

"要看到彩虹，就得忍受雨天。"

2011告一段落，你好2012

2011对我来说，是非常充实的一年。

这年里，事业，课业，家庭，朋友，感情都有很大的进展。

真的很庆幸我不是一个原地踏步的人。

那天跟姐妹陶谈了很久，真是光阴似剑，大家都长大了，很多东西都成了回忆。

人生就是如此，有的人走得快，有的人走得慢，有的人原地踏步。

每个人的步伐都不一样，要怎么走，是个人的选择。

走得太快了，会离群，

走得太慢，会跟不上，

原地踏步只会错过了前方的风景，

所以说这条路不好走。。

当你遇到一个肯跟你走到最后的"他"，再难走的路，你也会笑着走下去.

2012是个未知数，可是再难走我也会跟“你”走下去。=）

不一样了

internship终于告一段落。

是时候回到大学生活了。。。

一个假期回来，感觉不一样了。

好像很多想法都不一样了。

回头想，觉得自己以前好傻，常常为了一些小事不开心。

现在的我比以前放松了许多。

可能是觉得很多东西都是可遇不可求的。

太用力表现自己，太在意别人的眼光，换来的只是伤害。

我很庆幸自己遇到了耶稣。

因为他，我不再需要特出自己，不再渴求别人的肯定。

因为我是被爱的。

尽管我在别人的眼里是多么地不堪，在他眼里，我还是他最爱的女儿。

他的爱让我抛下了好累得自己，找到被爱的我。

他改变了我的人生，我的想法。

让我学会感恩与惜福。

我朋友不多，幸在知心的有几个！

我家人不多，幸在每个都很疼我！

我男友不多，爱我的有一个！

我钱不多，幸在够用！

我成就不大，幸在我还年轻！

我是幸福的。

Thank you JESUS LORD!

我对男人真的非常不满！

我今天受尽了大男人的气。

就算现在已是深夜了，我还没冲凉，还没刷牙洗脸。

一回到家，就想写这篇文章泄愤！！！

受了什么气就别提了！我只想让所有的男生知道，尊严不是男生的专利品！

不是唯独男生可拥有，女生也需要基本的尊重。

NO!!!

You call it fat? I call it unhealthy.

You know, weight can be a life or death matter for a girl.

I gained some weight lately and it makes me upset every time i look at the mirror.

Being very honest, i know i'm lucky enough to born naturally thin but girls will never feel enough for their body shape. I'm not sure whether it's the media effect or it's just part of the woman's nature. But things like this can upset me.

Too much of Macdonaldsssssss?

Also, i feel kinda unhealthy lately. My body is giving me lots of warning signal and they are like groaning in pain. I feel like an old lady when i'm walking on stairs and i get tired really fast.Pretty sure most of the girls feel that way too. So I should do something before it's too late.

Eat like the pizza;)

MY PLAN IS EAT LOTS OF FRUITS & EXERCISE REGULARLY!!!

The thing is i'm not a very discipline person and that make most of my diet plan failed.

I was once a chubby girl. So it terrifies me when i gained weight. However, i can also lose weight easily. How? I have very weak body and i get sick quite often. Mc once a month is inevitable. Don't get me wrong coz nobody would like to fall sick just to lose weight.

But this time, i hope i can lose weight in a healthy way. I'M SICK OF GETTING SICK!! So instead of cut off the diet, i choose to maintain a healthy diet.

"Obesity starts when you stop mind about your body image. " I always remind myself that.

Buka Puasa & Flash Mob

It's Saturday!

i just did a flash mob with my colleagues this morning. It was quite an interesting experience since i never seen or do any flash mob before. So we have some fun time singing Raya Song-" Suasana Hari Raya" in the LRT at KL sentral station. Response of passengers is not that happening like we thought and you know Malaysians are always passive with unfamiliar things. We called it as MALAYSIAN CULTURE- Passive from the outside, burning from the inside.lol..

Or probably because it wasn't well planned enough. We are lack of singers and that's why the effect isn't huge.

Anyway, i think it was a good try. Surprisingly they said i can sing WELL and offer me to be the lead singer. Well i agreed, but ended up i sang the wrong key coz IT WAS TOO SPONTANEOUS! I NEED MORE PRACTICE!! (i'm not giving excue=p) Again, it was a good try anyway. haha..

Oh ya, there will be some shocking photos of me and my friends wearing Baju Kurung & Baju Melayu coming up soon. So Stay tune.

Till then, xoxo!^^

Burn Out

I have been through so so much lately.

I have seen fake faces, selfish and ignorant people.

Sad to say that, we are just human and we are not perfect.

I have to admit that i'm not a very strong girl after all.

Instead, i think i'm pretty weak internally.

Sometimes you just get disappointed with many many things in life and giving up seems so much easier. You might be thinking: Why i wanna make my life so miserable? Isn't it easier without all the unrealistic/super ambitious dream?

INTERNSHIP

It has been some time i never blog, but i just want to share with you guys how i went through my internship.i hope it helps if you are having tough time like me=)

Working as an intern is definitely not easy at all. I still remember how harsh my Boss treated us with hurtful words like:

-Interns deserve no rest. you wanna rest? rest after 3months. Then you can have all the time you want.

-You sucks, admit it! it's ok, just don't suck too long.

-You dont like it, Get out of my office!

-The world won't stop because you are on mc or someone in your family pass away.

We work long long....hours per day. It's like you will never see the sun.

During production time, working for 20++ hours is inevitable.And you got to find ways to cope with that because you are not allow to fall sick. That moment is tough. Your pride is challenged, your dream is crushed, your passion faded and at the end of the day,

you will start questioning yourself, am i doing the right thing? Is this what i wanna do for my entire life?

Working long hours, sacrifice your social life and with all those unbearable stress?

Then I compare myself with other frens who do internship at other places. They are doing great!

They are happy, their Boss are good to them, they have more benefits, they have higher income.

i was like LIFE IS NOT FAIR!

Why they get all the good things?

i begin to complain, blame and angry with everything around me.

i wonder why God want to put me in such a bad situation where i don't see any point working in a company that i cant learn much.(That's what i think in the beginning)

But it's ok.Things will get easier and easier as we survive, i told myself.

My Boss challenged me in many many ways, well not to mention for those heavy workloads and mission impossible. Until one day my Boss switch me to another department that do team building business. The team building leader told me, it's going to very tough and tiring. i was like oh no... Surprisingly, i found it piece of cake compare to what i did in production department. I am able to work longer hours compare to my colleague. And i come to realize, when you have been through the worst, next time the challenge come, it doesn't bother me anymore.

Currently i almost finish my internship and my Boss turn out to be quite ok lately. He offered us a project and our internship assessment is going to base on that. He warn us that, if we did it badly, he will fail us all. So make sure it is an "A" project. It's either "F" or "A", no B, C, D,E..

We were under lots of pressure that time.

Until........tatang~~~ this is our final product, and of course it is an A product ;)

So enjoy it, and ready to burst in laughter coz it is an comedy.

So what i'm trying to say is, it is very hard to hang on to things that you think is unreasonable. But be patient and faithful, juz tell yourself, juz a little while, a little more, yea... almost~~~

Then 1 week pass, 2 weeks pass and without your realization, things gets better and you are able to adapt already. So frens, gambateh!^^

Sweetness come after bitterness!

Till then, tata=)

Appreciation to ALL

It has been ages i didn't log in to my bloggie,

It seems dead.

Probably i have too many things bugging me lately,

work, assignments, exam, church, family, and friends,

Thank God i'm still doing fine so far.

I was in the hospital for 3 days last week.

These 3 days make me know that how pampered i am in the family and among my friends.

All the people shows their concern in many ways, they text me, fb me, visit me, call me...

Thank God that he send so many beautiful people around me to make me feel secure and warm when i need them.

I really really wanna tell them how thankful i am to hv them by my side.

Thank you so so much!

Of course, i wanna thank my soul mate for staying with me in the hospital for three days.

Its really tiring for him to handle the assignment, work while taking care of me.

I know that you are a man of action. Many times, you might not pleasure me with words, but you always shows up when i need you the most. All these are 100times more genuine than any sweet talks. Thank you=)

Problem follows if u r the problem itself.

It was a bad bad day yesterday, somehow i'm still thankful.

I am thankful that i have Family and friends to support me.

I am thankful that there's still chances for me to fix the mistakes.

i hv been thinking all these problems follows me because i'm the source of problem itself.

Wherever i go, problems follow.

I reflects things that i hv done and i felt sorry to myself.

I get myself Barred,

Screw the 988 road cruiser without any preparation

Almost lost my car key(Thank God i found it)

Car accident

Slack my work

haiz... i dun think i'm doing well.

I'm not going to give any excuse for all these coz i know i deserve them.

But right now i juz wish that i can fix my mistakes.

SUNDAY

it's a sunny SUNDAY!!! Wuhoo~~~

I love it!

So what do i do during weekends?

i hv my starbucks and some reading moment.

It was awesome^^

As u know, i love reading<3<3<3

It kept me inspiring and temporarily separated from the hectic, busy life.

Life is tough lately, lots of things happen.

Japan tsunami, Myanmar earthquakes, many life's lost.

Something comes into my mind just now.

What i wanna do before the world ends?

I believe everyone will thought of this question, but how serious you look into this matter?

"what u wanna accomplish b4 u die?"

As for me, i'm a believer.

i wish i can do more for others.

i wish that people can get salvation from God.

So that i can meet them in heaven.

Especially for the people that i love.

Deep inside i know that this cant be done in a forceful way, but i will pray for u, my love ones=)

When the day is near, everyone will be thinking what i wanna achieve b4 i die,

but why don't we put it in this way,

instead of thinking about what we wanna achieve, think about what we can do for others.

Spread love,

Together, we can be stronger=）

Hi Bloggie

A big big "WOW!"to my bloggie.

LOL... i wonder when is the last time i log in to my blog?

This is not gud, Joey.

I should pay more visit next time.

Well, life is busy as usual n i found myself so unproductive lately.

Maybe because too many things are bugging me n i dunno where to start n focus at.

So i spend some reading time instead of blogging.

Reading makes me feel peaceful, and peace brings inspiration, agree?

If u r a reader, i bet u will be nodding your head unintentionally.haha!

I read an article abt blogging.

It's kinda a controversial topic abt advantages n disadvantages of blogging.

For me, sure i will go for YES! i side bloggers!haha...

Many ppl view blog as a personal diary.

Yes, cannot deny that it begins as a personal journal to internet user.

But as time goes, i found out that how interestingly ppl can reveal their thoughts n idea bravely through blog compare to reality.

For those who seems quiet in actual life, they might be really talented.

Just like the malay's quote: Diam-diam Ubi berisi.

So many of these "Ubi" actually showcase their "ISI" in their blogs and Youtube.

What i mean is Blogs have became a platform for everyone to reveal what they got!

Look at Juztin Bieber!

He is found and brought to the entertainment field by Usher through Youtube.

Who knows you will be Next?(Perhaps not Bierber la, in case u dun like him=p)

Blog is definitely a place that u can know a person better.

People tends to loosen up themselves n be more truthful in the internet because you dun get to see that particular person face to face.

Just like why ppl choose to break up through Phones, SMS, MSN or facebook.(no offences=p)

Also, writing is better than talking sometimes.

Because as we write we have more time to think and organize what we want to say.

While for speaking, the words just come out too fast even before we filter the content in our brain, that's what happen when we have slip of tongue.

CONCLUSION: if u wanna know a person better. READ THEIR BLOGS!!!

You can only receive when you let go...

The days before this i was still upset about things in life,

This morning when i read an email from my friend,

I just realize how selfish i was.

All these while, i'm just focus on my own problem, magnify it, sad about it,

without pouring care to those who loves me,

i take their love for granted.

They have problems as well,

i should have take the initiative to ask about their life,

cherish them, and be there when they need me.

Love is reciprocate, friendship as well.

没那么简单

i hv been thinking for so many days,

Did i do anything wrong?

What is friendship all about?

M i a person hard to get along?

Is it my problem after all?

Millions of question running in my head.

得空的后果=误思乱想

昨天终于

得空了休息了！

结果列，有事没事都淋“餐”饱！

都唔知淋么？

我看我十成是太忙了，所以一得空就想东想西的。

哎。。。

盈莹！！！别再想啦！！！！！

振作点！

是新年阿！新年要开心^^

Happy Chinese new year^^

Finally........ my shooting has come to the end.

Really thank God for giving me strength n courage to keep me motivated.

Oso i hv to thank my fellow teammates for performing their efficiency and profession throughout the shooting.

Last but not least to thank our frens who are willing to offer help as volunteer.

You guys are AWESOME!!!!Wuhoo~~~

Hu~~ chinese new year is coming...

Assignments due date is reaching as well.

Somehow it's a gud thing to keep me busy as well.

Since my new year is juz here, rawang but no where else.haha..

And i hv no money to go out as well. T.T

Argh!!!!! money money come~~~~ pls~~~

Only you know me the best

Frens...

Family...

study.....

work.....

church....

So many things happen lately,

Problems comes one after another,

There's never ending challenges in my life.

i'm almost at the verge of breaking down,

physically and mentally.

My life is like roller coaster everyday.

I'm not surprise one day i will die of car accident, heart attack, or over stress.

Recently,

My life has fell into a pattern,

It's like a working machine.

APART from work,

still it's work.

Of course i do hv emotions,

Somehow i dun hv much time to even feel sad or angry abt something.

I'm juz doing my part.

i tell myself,

No matter how hard it is, this is to glorify your name Lord.

It's usual that

People often has different perception

but we cant favor everyone,

somehow we have to stand strong and be honest with our feelings

I did try my very best to talk things out,

I hv did my part father,

the rest is up to you.

After so many things happen in life,

i barely trust in anyone,

and barely believes that there's someone who i can trust or understand me.

Ppl fails you,

but God will never.

He know me the best^^