I was reading at Macdonald this afternoon and get inspired with the book by Joshua Harris.
So i decided to write down and share it here.
Recently i come across with the question: Why are we having so much trouble in life? Everyone seems to be unhappy? Love problem, family problem, financial, workplace, study....
I mean almost everyday, we flip on the papers and there will be teenagers suicide case.
What happen to humanity?
Human life seems to be so vulnarable and fragile.
Yes, human are fragile, just because their heart are fragile.
I always believe human heart is made by glass, because we are all emotional based animals.
Dun tell me that guys are not emotional, if they were, then you better watch out.
Everyone has emotion in order to have the ability to feel.
And when you have the ability to feel, you can get HURT.
When it comes to communication, men especially have a lot to learn in this area. no offence
So let's not dismiss this weakness as a "guy" thing. It doesn't give you license to say something hurtful or discourage words just because you think you are telling the truth. Instead, push yourself to improve it in order to cherish others life. If a simple praise or compliment can put a smile on someone's face, why not? *of course say it when you mean it*
Let me bring out the scenario:
Girl: I think i talk too much.
Guy:You know i'm not good in words.
Girl:At least you try?
Guy:But i never fail in action.(you mean kissing or cruddling?)
If Love merely based on affection but not understanding, that's simply pathetic.
Not to mention communication is an art. Word itself means nothing when the intention is not there. Saying the right word, at the right time, with the right person, at a right place is even challenging. Lips is the meseenger of thoughts. Use it wisely. Good words can be an energizer that pushes you form miles to miles but bad words can drain you.
How Jesus spread the gospel?-Words
How politician convince the nation for votes?-Words
How the teacher instill knowledge to the students?-Words
How couples confess their commitment to each other? Vow of life-Words
Words are powerful. Speak to bless=)