What to do with your lips other than kissing

I was reading at Macdonald this afternoon and get inspired with the book by Joshua Harris.

So i decided to write down and share it here.

Recently i come across with the question: Why are we having so much trouble in life? Everyone seems to be unhappy? Love problem, family problem, financial, workplace, study....

I mean almost everyday, we flip on the papers and there will be teenagers suicide case.

What happen to humanity?

Human life seems to be so vulnarable and fragile.

Yes, human are fragile, just because their heart are fragile.

I always believe human heart is made by glass, because we are all emotional based animals.

Dun tell me that guys are not emotional, if they were, then you better watch out.

Everyone has emotion in order to have the ability to feel.

And when you have the ability to feel, you can get HURT.

When it comes to communication, men especially have a lot to learn in this area. no offence

So let's not dismiss this weakness as a "guy" thing. It doesn't give you license to say something hurtful or discourage words just because you think you are telling the truth. Instead, push yourself to improve it in order to cherish others life. If a simple praise or compliment can put a smile on someone's face, why not? *of course say it when you mean it*

Let me bring out the scenario:

Girl: I think i talk too much.

Guy:You know i'm not good in words.

Girl:At least you try?

Guy:But i never fail in action.(you mean kissing or cruddling?)

Girl:hmm...

If Love merely based on affection but not understanding, that's simply pathetic.

Not to mention communication is an art. Word itself means nothing when the intention is not there. Saying the right word, at the right time, with the right person, at a right place is even challenging. Lips is the meseenger of thoughts. Use it wisely. Good words can be an energizer that pushes you form miles to miles but bad words can drain you.

How Jesus spread the gospel?-Words

How politician convince the nation for votes?-Words

How the teacher instill knowledge to the students?-Words

How couples confess their commitment to each other? Vow of life-Words

Words are powerful. Speak to bless=)

Spread love.

Cheers...

有人说如果你用一年去爱一个人，就得用两年来忘记他，如果是两年，就要用四年，以此类推。。。忘记一个人真的那么难？

爱是？

兜兜转转到这一刻，我在想爱情到底是怎样的一回事？

让人欢喜，让人悲

如果不曾幸福快乐，又怎么会伤心难过?

不爱过，又怎么会恨？

如果曾经快乐，为什么还要走到这一步？

原来，爱不简单。

要在

对得时间，对的环境，用对的方式去爱对的人。

Knowing Who you are.

It has been some time i didn't blog.

I probably too busy with hectic schedule and having fun with conversation rather than typing it out word by word. I abandoned the beauty of documenting my life and i'm so sorry to myself.

The world is full of temptation. Opportunities are everywhere, just the moment you think you got something, actually you lost yourself.

Upon chasing opportunities and desired goal, I have no time to sit down and read or write about anything. If i refer my life pattern as an account, it would be all debit and no credit.

I have been working, studying, socializing. I am having so much fun.

However, when the fun stays longer, you forgot why you are doing it. (Hope you understand what i mean)Living in the city full of entertainments, interesting people and being in the broadcast world is easy to lost yourself. In my case YES. i almost lost the passion in hosting.

Sometimes, we just have to pace down and nurtured ourselves with some peaceful moments. Do something beneficial to yourself. Reduce Clubbing, yam chaing, and non stop dating could give you more time to develop yourself. No doubts, it will be difficult in the beginning, but as time goes you will realize that you gained more than what you lose.

All of the sudden, an unpleasant incident came into my life and it messes the busy daily routine i used to have. It is like a strong collision and it breaks everything apart. Of course it was a painful experience. But it makes me think ALOT.

I appreciate every bitterness in life because it makes me grow.

This is my favorite quote:

"要看到彩虹，就得忍受雨天。"

2011告一段落，你好2012

2011对我来说，是非常充实的一年。

这年里，事业，课业，家庭，朋友，感情都有很大的进展。

真的很庆幸我不是一个原地踏步的人。

那天跟姐妹陶谈了很久，真是光阴似剑，大家都长大了，很多东西都成了回忆。

人生就是如此，有的人走得快，有的人走得慢，有的人原地踏步。

每个人的步伐都不一样，要怎么走，是个人的选择。

走得太快了，会离群，

走得太慢，会跟不上，

原地踏步只会错过了前方的风景，

所以说这条路不好走。。

当你遇到一个肯跟你走到最后的"他"，再难走的路，你也会笑着走下去.

2012是个未知数，可是再难走我也会跟“你”走下去。=）

不一样了

internship终于告一段落。

是时候回到大学生活了。。。

一个假期回来，感觉不一样了。

好像很多想法都不一样了。

回头想，觉得自己以前好傻，常常为了一些小事不开心。

现在的我比以前放松了许多。

可能是觉得很多东西都是可遇不可求的。

太用力表现自己，太在意别人的眼光，换来的只是伤害。

我很庆幸自己遇到了耶稣。

因为他，我不再需要特出自己，不再渴求别人的肯定。

因为我是被爱的。

尽管我在别人的眼里是多么地不堪，在他眼里，我还是他最爱的女儿。

他的爱让我抛下了好累得自己，找到被爱的我。

他改变了我的人生，我的想法。

让我学会感恩与惜福。

我朋友不多，幸在知心的有几个！

我家人不多，幸在每个都很疼我！

我男友不多，爱我的有一个！

我钱不多，幸在够用！

我成就不大，幸在我还年轻！

我是幸福的。

Thank you JESUS LORD!

我对男人真的非常不满！

我今天受尽了大男人的气。

就算现在已是深夜了，我还没冲凉，还没刷牙洗脸。

一回到家，就想写这篇文章泄愤！！！

受了什么气就别提了！我只想让所有的男生知道，尊严不是男生的专利品！

不是唯独男生可拥有，女生也需要基本的尊重。